Posts from the ‘Home and Work’ Category

Useful Holiday Sweater Tip

Wednesday, December 30, 2009
posted by Karen @ 1:22 PM

 

Not sure what to do with that red holiday sweater grandma gave you? How about hanging it on the back of your office chair. You can place a red sweater, jacket, or even a piece of red tape across the back of your chair for a little protection from behind. Red can stop chi. If the back of your chair is facing the entrance of the cubicle, it can stop it from hitting you in the back!

 

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Good Edible Tidings of Comfort and Joy

Thursday, December 10, 2009
posted by Karen @ 3:58 PM

253438Sometimes I ask my feng shui clients to follow what’s called “the tradition of the red envelope” for some of the “cures” I share with them. But if you know me at all, you know that in my practice, I have no issues with bending the rules of tradition. So, instead of requesting the traditional cash payment in the envelope, I ask them to give me something meaningful “from their heart.” Then, I give them an idea by saying that I love good “family” recipes. You know, the ones that were made up in someone’s kitchen versus a professional test kitchen somewhere?

I thought I’d pass along one that I received a long time ago that works very well during the holidays as well as one that “takes me back” to my childhood days when I lived in the Cincinnati area. Feel free to share your favorite holiday, or your favorite childhood comfort food recipe with me. I simply LOVE trying new recipes! Give these a go – they are EASY to make one pot dishes that are packed with flavor.

 

Cranberry Relish (Thanks to client Patricia Dreyfus)

4 cups cranberries

1 cup seedless raisins

1 2/3 cup sugar

Cook these in a large saucepan for 15 minutes. Then, stir the following into the mixture for 15 more minutes:

1 medium sized apple, chopped

½ cup thinly sliced celery

1 medium onion, chopped

1 cup water

1 Tbsp. Ground cinnamon

1 ½ tsp. Ground ginger

1/4 tsp. Ground cloves

1 tsp. Grated orange rind

Then serve or refrigerate and use later! (Like on a turkey and cream cheese sandwich!)

 

Cincinnati Chili (Karen’s healthier version) Erase all preconceived ideas of what chili means to you and enjoy this unique “sauce.”

2 pounds ground turkey (traditionally it is ground beef)

1 quart water

2 cans (8 oz. Each) tomato sauce

2 medium onions, finely chopped

5 TBS. Chili powder

2 TBS. Vinegar

4 cloves chopped garlic

2 tsp. Worcestershire sauce

1 ½ tsp. Salt

½ oz. Unsweetened chocolate (like Hershey’s cocoa)

1 tsp. Ground cumin

1 tsp. Ground cinnamon

1 tsp. Allspice

1 tsp. Ground cloves

1 large bay leaf

½ tsp. Ground red pepper (or tabasco sauce)

In a heavy 4 quart saucepan, place turkey and water stirring until it separates into small pieces. Bring to a boil. Reduce heat and simmer uncovered for 15 minutes. Add remaining ingredients, stirring to blend well. (Secret: sometimes, I just throw it all in the pot at once and go from there. You really can’t go wrong with this easy recipe.)

Simmer uncovered (about 2 to 3 hours) or until ingredients have the consistency of a spaghetti sauce. Stir from time to time. Remove bay leaf and serve over freshly cooked spaghetti. (As an option, you can add some fresh onions if desired) then add very finely grated cheddar or Colby cheese. (Some people also add warmed kidney beans on top of all this, but I prefer the no onion and no bean taste!) And if you want to really go all the way, (and if the spaghetti isn’t carb enough for you!) serve with a side of oyster crackers. Sounds strange, but that crunch and extra salt works great with this dish!

Serves 6 to 8.

(Alternative: place this chili and toppings on top of a cooked hot dog (turkey too?) in a bun for an awesome chili dog.)

Nine Traditional Cure Gift Ideas

Wednesday, December 2, 2009
posted by Karen @ 12:38 PM

gift boxes     Want to give someone a feng shui enhancement for the holidays? Here are some ideas I came up with that work with feng shui’s “nine traditional feng shui cures.”

Light: booklight, natural-ingredient candles, night light, rechargeable flashlight

Living Object: Poinsettias, potted plants and kitchen herbs, pets, or even fresh fruit or flowers.

Sound: Chimes, music, iTunes gift cards, instruments, (Guitar Hero/Rockband?) “jingle bells,” or how about a space-clearing bell?

Moving Object: Kinetic sculpture, clock, watch, scooter, rollerblades or skates, hybrid car.

Color: This could be anything from a stained glass item to clothing – you name it.

Electrically-powered Object: appliances, TV, computer, electrically-powered car (or how about heading in the opposite direction and give a corded phone so you can help them reduce their exposure to those pesky radio frequencies?) My vote is “just say no” to microwave ovens.

Weight: Workout machines or weights or a stone sculpture.

Symbol: Hearts, diamonds, roses, cash, etc.

Other: This category is all about any item that make a person’s personal energy change. And it may only enhance that one person’s energy, meaning it may be something specifically meaningful or uplifting or symbolic to that particular person. This could be and item handed down through a family tree that only looks like an “old something” to anyone else not-in-the-know about it. It could also be a private joke-type gift, like a favorite song or something that triggers a specific good memory. Or how about an experience like a massage or a special trip? How about a coupon that says you are willing to help them de-clutter a room or garage in their home?

     Got any other ideas? I’d love to hear from you!

Are Cornucopias Corny?

Thursday, November 19, 2009
posted by Karen @ 2:38 PM

53851414_845bd73644I receive a lot of questions about feng shui placement of holiday decorations this time of year, and especially the question of how to support healthy communication and authentic good times when attending “obligatory” family events.

            The good news is that the yellow and orange colors of fall leaves and vegetables make excellent choices, as these colors are very grounding. I use the color yellow throughout the year when my clients want more focus in their lives (or the lives of their kids,) so it is certainly appropriate to use during these family gatherings.

            I also use the saffron orange color, as it helps support boundaries in life. If you’ve got issues with guilt or feeling like you can’t say no when every fiber of your being wants to, get more of that color around you (go ahead and wear it if you need to!)

            Bottom line, there practically isn’t a more appropriate thing to have in your home than the harvest colors of a well-stocked cornucopia. From a traditional feng shui perspective, the center of the home (or table) is certainly appropriate as it symbolically and energetically supports health and well being. Also, the back left-hand part of the home or room (from where you enter through the door) is a great place for a cornucopia too, as both this part of your home and the cornucopia signify abundance and prosperity.

            If you want more information on holiday decorations, listen in on my teleseminar call tonight at 5PM PST, 8PM Eastern. Click here for more information: http://fengshuipalace.com/prods/hrpds.php?prod=1603&cat=29

Is your bedroom helping or hindering your relationship?

Friday, October 9, 2009
posted by Karen @ 10:24 AM

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Back To School Feng Shui Tips

Wednesday, August 26, 2009
posted by Karen @ 1:25 PM

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In order to bring order to the chaos of back to school time, here’s my advice for creating a home that can handle the job:

1.     Designate a place for reminders, flyers, and misc. notes that come home from school. Is there a part of a wall somewhere that needs to turn into a bulletin board? Make sure there is a trash can near by so that it is easy to keep this space updated. If this ends up in the kitchen, make sure it does not interfere with the function of the kitchen. I see a lot of “piles gone wild” on countertops in the homes where I consult. Food preparation space has been overtaken by the school reminder pile. Everyone ends up frustrated in this situation.

2.     Designate a permanent homework-friendly zone. This is the place where long term homework projects can remain “in the process” for a while without being disturbed. If you have more than one child, there may have to be individual zones for each one. School is your kid’s job. And just like you are designated a job space at work, your child needs a job space somewhere within the home where organizational thinking can take place. If you can create this space in the skills and knowledge area of a room or the home – so much the better (that’s the front left-hand space as you walk in the door.)
        I see a lot of kids doing their daily homework on the dining room table or at the counter in the kitchen. That’s fine, but I consider this a temporary work space. Besides this space, I’d like to see someplace – however small – that energetically holds the homework and homework necessities within the home (perhaps it is a milk crate-like bin in the pantry that holds everything.) Have a logical go-to place when someone says “Where’s my homework?” This is the mom’s drop place for homework and school related stuff when she sees the stuff out of it’s boundaries within the house. I’d like to see a place for reference material and full time homework aids too, so if this box or zone has to get out of the kitchen, do it.

3.     Designate “a year’s-worth of storage” somewhere, where each child can collect their work throughout the year. This is, of course, the work that seems logical to save for a time. I’ve had some parents say to me that they save everything throughout the year because they had to prove to a teacher later that the child actually did the work (the teacher forgot to mark a grade, etc.) So, I’m thinking of this bin for that function – not as a bin to save everything forever! If you do save everything, just make sure you go through it when the year is over – don’t quietly put a lid on it and stuff it somewhere in the garage…you’ll be overrun by paper before you know it. Don’t forget my rule – nothing under the bed…perhaps this box could actually find a home in the garage or in a storage unit in the home office.

    During consultations throughout the years, I have seen many little built-in or just regular desks in the kid’s rooms, where if the kid was doing their homework, they would have a wall about 18 inches in front of them. For all of these desks that I have seen – I have seen NONE actually being used as a homework desk. They are usually junk collecting and catch-all spaces. That’s because having your face 18 inches from a wall is VERY POOR FENG SHUI and kids just won’t put up with it – they know better! So, if you are trying to create a homework-friendly environment, place a desk in the room so that the child’s back is to the wall and they have the breadth of the room in front of them. Hopefully they can see the door while seated, but are not in line with it. I’m not big on computers in the bedroom, but if it has to be there, bundle the cords to create the most aesthetically pleasing and safe space around the desk.

Here are some additional feng shui homework helpers:

1. Yellow is a great color to study around – paint the walls or the top of the desk. Or a simpler solution is to get a yellow blotter to place on top of the desk. People trained in ADD assistance use yellow color overlays to help steady the words on the page for those they are helping, so I’m sure there is some scientific study why this works…but all we care about is that it does!

2. Classical music – even if it is very low in the background, it can be a subconscious helper in the homework department. On the other hand, make sure the noise pollution (traffic outside, humming AC units, siblings fighting) is kept at a minimum as well.

3. No sloped ceilings, beams or fans overhead the homework space. I think I’ll invent a hat that has a mirror on the top of it (facing up) as a cure for these situations! The answer is to place a mirror face up somewhere between the person and the object overhead to repel it away if that’s the only place you have to use.

4. Proper light – a clear task light on the table can go a long way here – to keep the child “on task” and to help “shed some light” on the subject of the homework. And natural lighting is always a good idea to keep someone awake.

5. Make sure the actual chair is comfortable enough for the average homework sit.

6. Minimize distractions – no phone, Play station, TV, etc. within view.

7. The attic, ceiling and roof can equal the “head space” of the house. If you’ve got “cob webs upstairs” in your head, you might want to clean the real webs out of the attic spaces of your home.

I hope you find these feng shui tips helpful in creating a safe and empowering environment for you.

Finding the Energy to Deal with Life

Thursday, August 13, 2009
posted by Karen @ 2:20 PM

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If you have to know one thing about feng shui, it should be how to collect energy. I’m talking about energy for the kids, energy to handle the relationships, energy to maintain health and to get out of bed each day. Everything is energy after all; the walls, the food, the television, the landscape, the dirty clothes in the hamper. So, for better instead of for worse you need to know where to get more.

            According to the laws of energy and feng shui, the place to gather and store your energy is your home. Think of it as your energy storage tank. Is yours full of junk instead of uncluttered space and high-quality energy?

            The opening of your storage tank where the energy enters the house “tank” is the front door — the architecturally intended front door that is (not the door coming into your house from the garage in other words.) If your front door is not up to par, you are not gathering the best, or most energy available to you which can spell out sub par living on the back end.

            Think of the front door to your home the equivalent to the mouth of your body. Everything that sustains your body — air, food, water — comes in through the mouth. If your mouth is impeded or not working properly, the body can suffer and the cells living inside are weak. It’s the same with the home. If the door and the walkway to the door are impeded, broken, or in any way not in good order, then the whole home suffers which ultimately hurts the people living inside, as they are malnourished energetically.

  Here’s a front door check list that includes energy-revving ideas:

 1.         Is the door easy to locate? Can strangers and the UPS delivery person find your door? If not, then the energy probably isn’t finding it either. A quick fix for a door that is not easily visible is to hang a wind chime outside the door, preferable on the non-hinged side.

            The address is also a part of the conversation about how to find the correct door. Make sure your address is clearly presented for all who need to know.

 2.         Is the walk to the door from the street easy to negotiate? If you are being pricked by thorns or trip over the broken sidewalk chances are the quality of energy coming into the home is weak. Make the walk a pleasant, uneventful one. Trim back plants, add colorful fresh plants for additional energy, remove anything directly in front of the door (like a tree trunk straight in front of the door within about 100 feet.) If you have impediments, fix them by hanging or somehow placing a mirror either above the door or anywhere between the door and the item that needs to be pushed away. This mirror will energetically push the item away for you if you can’t remove it.

 3.         Is the actual door in good working order? That means the screen door, door bell, knocker, windows, knob, locks, porch lights and anything else around the door works perfectly. If the door itself can’t open all the way because of something stored behind it, then consider your energy hampered.

             If you live in an apartment and your front door is in a hallway, wash the door often, placing a fresh welcome mat outside or other pleasant and eye-catching object nearby if possible. The goal is to attract as much energy as possible from the energy flowing through that hallway.

Seriously hardworking, or hardly serious?

Wednesday, July 15, 2009
posted by Karen @ 12:28 PM

 

If you want to be taken more seriously at work, make sure that you don’t have any symbols in your workspace that would make people think you are not serious. Clients of mine in the past with this predicament have had everything from gi-normous displays of PEZ dispensers, to a big painting of a sad clown hung behind them, to a complete country “HeHaw-themed” office (and this was an office in New York City if you can believe it,) metal sign of a big pig and all.
Unless you are in an industry that promotes imagination, design, or free-thinking creativity, you may want to temper the personalization of your workspace to read more professional.

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